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The Rebbe Raised Me Like a Son

By Mendel Scharf
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The Rebbe Raised Me Like a Son

Mendel was just seven years old when his father suddenly passed away, leaving behind four orphans. The Rebbe took a unique interest in the Scharf children, showering them with attention, love, and paternal concern – which we can all learn from. Watch Rabbi Scharf share his story, and the lessons and inspiration he continues to carry with him more than 30 years later.
Topics: Lubavitcher Rebbe, Gimmel Tammuz
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